The implications and negative consequences of marrying the wrong mate are huge.
But, now, we have the best chance ever to find the right mate. We are not limited to finding somebody from our village. We have millions of single people on the web looking for love too. We can use the power of large numbers to find that perfect person that fits us like 2 pieces of a puzzle that go perfectly together. The key is to concentrate on our own feelings. And by feelings I literally mean bodily sensations. As described in the last blog A new and better way to read people , when you are alone, center yourself with deep breaths to find your baseline state of bodily sensations, starting with your feet, then legs, genitals, abdomen, chest, shoulders, neck and face.
Then concentrate on bodily sensations in the presence of the person you are considering dating, or already dating. Overall, does your body feel at peace or on edge? If lots of body parts light up in a positive way, sexual excitement, comfort, butterflies in your stomach, lightness in your chest, a smile upon your lips, chances are that both your mind and your body are resonating with the person and you are on the right track.
These bodily sensations grow out of neural activity associated with love and attraction in specific parts of our brains.
FMRI studies done in by Aron et al, published in the Journal of Neurophysiology show that there is activation specific to the beloved person that occurs in the right ventral tegmental area and right caudate nucleus dopamine -rich areas associated with mammalian reward and motivation. Intriguingly, activation of the ventral tegmental area and right caudate nucleus also occur during orgasm, suggesting that that neural structures involved in attraction, affection and bonding are identical to those involved in sexual climax.
A Chinese study in confirmed the previous findings and added that activity in the subgenual area and the superior frontal gyrus was associated with higher relationship happiness. In , other studies on people in love who are shown pictures of the person they love showed that the areas that light up are: ventral tegmental area and dorsal striatum. Sexual arousal associated with activation of structures such as the ventral tegmental area has been shown to increase sensitivity to touch and vibration in the genitals, so that when we are aroused, we literally feel it in our bodies. Activation of the basal ganglia caudate, globus pallidus also influences activity in our skeletal voluntary muscles.
Curiously, our conscious brain usually thought of as cerebral cortex is often not directly aware of such activity in deep, more primitive parts of the brain—such as the ventral tegmental area and caudate nucleus—that light up with when we experience love. In other words, primitive, unconscious portions of our brains—where we feel love, attraction and comfort, communicate with modern, conscious portions of our brains through our bodies!
This idea is the basis for the James-Lange theory emotion, and more recent theories such as the somatic mapping theory, which posit that we are sad because we are crying, happy because we are laughing , and sexually attracted because our genitals feel more sensitive, not the other way around. Simply put: our bodies lead and our minds follow, so if you want to know whether you have found true love, ask your body, not your mind. Yes, you must kiss lots of frogs to find your prince, but thanks to the Web, finding that perfect prince is easier than ever!
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Recipe: korean jajangmyeon black bean noodles. Ready or not, winter is here! This sort of deep freeze is conducive to baking and soup-making. Actually, it was 12 bean soup and if you really want to know why, you can read about it on Instagram.
Also noodles. Noodles are forever a part of my year-round menu because I am a bona fide Noodle Girl. There is no shame in store bought packs of ramen my current favorite is Nongshim Shin Ramyun Black that get dressed up with lots of vegetables, spicy pickled radishes, a few slices of char siu pork, and a soft-boiled egg.
Last year I chucked a black bean Korean noodle affair into my cart. The preparation was a simple boiling of noodles, straining the noodles, and tossing them with a packet of black bean sauce. It was delicious — and painful — but delicious. After a couple more face-melting events, I finally inspected the noodle packets on my next trip to the Asian grocery store and found a version of the same Korean noodles without the inferno symbol.
At this point I was so in love with these noodles that the next logical step was to make it at home.
I have moderate comfort when it comes to navigating Chinese ingredients because I grew up with this stuff and I also have my Mom as a helpful reference Dad could be considered a reference, but a lot less helpful. I understand some Mandarin Chinese, can speak less than I understand, and the extent of my reading comprehension ends at mah jong tiles.
And so I found myself squinting at photos of black bean paste labels on my phone as I held it next to all of the black bean pastes on the shelf at the H-Mart Korean grocer in the Denver suburbs. Most of the pastes were spicy, but I wanted the mild version so Jeremy could eat it, too. As a last resort, you could order online.
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